๐ข๐ธ ๐๐ฎ ๐ถ๐ช๐ ๐ด๐ท๐ธ๐ ๐๐ธ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ป
๐๐ท๐ญ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ต ๐๐ฒ๐ผ ๐บ๐พ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฝ ๐น๐ธ๐๐ฎ๐ป,
๐๐ฎ๐ฝ ๐พ๐ผ ๐ญ๐ช๐ฒ๐ต๐ ๐ด๐ฎ๐ฎ๐น ๐ฒ๐ท ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ
๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ท ๐๐ธ๐พ๐ป-
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐ฝ๐ธ ๐พ๐ท๐ญ๐ฎ๐ป๐ผ๐ฝ๐ช๐ท๐ญ ๐๐ธ๐ญ’๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ป๐ฎ๐ช๐ฝ๐ท๐ฎ๐ผ๐ผ
๐๐ท๐ญ ๐ฝ๐ธ ๐พ๐ผ๐ฎ ๐๐ฒ๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฝ๐ผ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฑ ๐ญ๐ช๐
๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ธ๐พ๐ต ๐ถ๐พ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ช๐ป๐ท ๐ฝ๐ธ ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ฝ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ถ
๐๐ท ๐ช ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ ๐๐ช๐,
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐ธ๐พ๐ป ๐๐ช๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ต๐ต๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ผ ๐ฌ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ต๐ญ๐ป๐ฎ๐ท
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ฒ๐ฏ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ธ๐พ๐ต๐ญ ๐ด๐ท๐ธ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ผ ๐๐ฒ๐ต๐ต
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐พ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ด ๐๐ฒ๐ถ ๐ฒ๐ท ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฎ๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ท ๐ช๐ต๐ต ๐ฒ๐ผ ๐ฌ๐ช๐ต๐ถ ๐ช๐ท๐ญ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ต๐ต…
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐ท๐ช๐ฝ๐พ๐ป๐ฎ’๐ผ ๐ฐ๐ป๐ฎ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฏ๐ธ๐ป๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ผ
๐๐ป๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐ธ๐พ๐ท๐ญ ๐ฒ๐ท ๐บ๐พ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฝ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ
๐๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ธ๐ฏ๐ฝ๐ต๐ ๐ฏ๐ช๐ต๐ต๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ ๐ผ๐ท๐ธ๐๐ฏ๐ต๐ช๐ด๐ฎ๐ผ
๐๐ป๐ฒ๐ฏ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ธ๐๐ท ๐ธ๐ท ๐ช๐ท๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ต’๐ผ ๐๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ๐ผ,
๐๐ป ๐น๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ช๐ต๐ผ ๐ญ๐ป๐ธ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ ๐ผ๐ธ๐พ๐ท๐ญ๐ต๐ฎ๐ผ๐ผ๐ต๐
๐๐ป๐ธ๐ถ ๐ช ๐ต๐ธ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ต๐ ๐ฏ๐พ๐ต๐ต-๐ซ๐ต๐ธ๐๐ท ๐ป๐ธ๐ผ๐ฎ,
๐ข๐ธ ๐๐ธ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ผ ๐ฌ๐ต๐ธ๐ผ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ธ ๐พ๐ผ
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ท ๐ธ๐พ๐ป ๐ผ๐ธ๐พ๐ต๐ผ ๐ช๐ป๐ฎ ๐ฒ๐ท ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐ธ๐ผ๐ฎ…
๐ข๐ธ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ ๐พ๐ผ ๐น๐ต๐ช๐ท ๐๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฑ ๐น๐ป๐ช๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฏ๐พ๐ต ๐ฌ๐ช๐ป๐ฎ
๐ฃ๐ธ ๐ช๐ต๐๐ช๐๐ผ ๐ช๐ต๐ต๐ธ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฎ
๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฝ๐ช๐ฒ๐ท ๐น๐ธ๐ป๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ท ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐ช๐ฌ๐ฑ ๐ญ๐ช๐
๐ฃ๐ธ ๐ซ๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ต๐ต ๐ช๐ท๐ญ ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฎ…
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ท ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ ๐ฒ๐ผ ๐บ๐พ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฝ
๐๐ท๐ญ ๐๐ฎ’๐ป๐ฎ ๐ต๐ธ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฒ๐ท ๐ถ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ท,
๐๐พ๐ป ๐ผ๐ธ๐พ๐ต ๐ฒ๐ผ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ท ๐น๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐ช๐ป๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐ช ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ฎ๐น ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ท
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐๐ฒ๐ต๐ต ๐ถ๐ช๐ด๐ฎ ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐๐ฑ๐ธ๐ต๐ต๐ ๐น๐ธ๐ผ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ซ๐ต๐ฎ
๐ฃ๐ธ ๐บ๐พ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ต๐ ๐ฎ๐ท๐ญ๐พ๐ป๐ฎ
๐ฃ๐ฑ๐ฎ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ธ๐ต๐ฎ๐ท๐ฝ ๐๐ธ๐ป๐ต๐ญ ๐ช๐ป๐ธ๐พ๐ท๐ญ ๐พ๐ผ-
๐๐ธ๐ป ๐๐ธ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ ๐ช๐ป๐ฎ ๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐พ๐ป๐ฎ.
Category: School of Hard Knocks
Thre Rights Of Any Friendship or Aquantence
I. You have the right to act toward others according to your own beliefs and values (not according to theirs), to live your own life (not to be lived by others), to live out your own decisions and to live with their consequences.
II. You have the right to see others as equal (regardless of how they see you), to esteem others as neither superior nor inferior (in spite of how they esteem you).
ย III.You have the right to renegotiate relationships (although the others resist review), to take new positions (though the others prefer the old), to change your mind (even when others doubt you have one).
IV. You have the right to fail (therefore the right to choose freely), the right to make mistakes (therefore the right to take risks).
V. You have the right to see your own perceptions, to feel your own feelings, to think your own thoughts, to act your own actions, to experience your own accountability.
The Essence of a Friend…
We have many, many, many, acquaintancesย in thisย life, But Few real friends.
When you think about it you want to be sad, Don’t this is how its supposedย to be. I was trying to teach my teen daughter it is possible to have more than one best friend. where she argued a blue streak saying it just was not possible. I have learned otherwise there are different kinds ofย friends.
- The friendly acquaintance.
- ย ย ย ย Your casual friend( you know the one from high school you call every 6 mo to a year just to make sure their breathing, go camping or watch the super bowl with, or Ladies you go shopping twice a year.)
- ย ย ย ย Then there are your close friends,( You know the ones you hang with at the bar or coffee shop. once or twice a week.)
- ย ย ย ย Best friend type A:(the one you take to the gym, see every other day but still no call’s after 11pm. and youย share your every day strugglesย to a point)
- ย ย ย BEST Friend best of the best.(the ones you call family even though you’re not related. Brothers from differentย mothers and sisters of the same.You shareย everything day or night ups, downs there is never TMI.)
For me, I love all unconditionally, and sometimes its hard to distinguish between 1&2.
but it happens and I get hurt. In explaining this to my daughter she started to get it.
Sometimes when I think of the people I consider family, some I have known for years and some only months and some I even never seen or I have butย not in person all I do is talk to them on messenger or skype. but they are goodย people. you know how kids today say I have an app for that? well, I say I have a Friend for that.ย I have friends that share in most all of my interests and I have friends that share life experiences, so when I need my friends I go to the ones that can help the most first and then the rest. to start a spiral just
like the structure of the large shell, I’m in the center and all my Friends and Family are gathered around creating this strong support network.
Are you Getting it yet? its the same for you. there are some simple rules to follow…
- Always be Honest (Don’t Lie to your Friends)
- learn when to pleadย the fifth, ( to say I have no opinion)
- Always Listen, evenย when you think they’re totallyย out of their mind.
- ย Never Ever Take Yourย Friends For Granted!!!
- always have words of encouragement ready when needed.
- Don’t be afraid to tell yourย friends they are Messingย up.
- If you can, give yourย friend the tools to get back on track.This is when I teach. If they have needs that need to be met, use your best judgmentย and refer to rule 11.(as a rule, Iย always buy what they need if it concerns money if I have it. I never give Cash or checks to friends No offense.)
- Never leave an argument unsettled( if you cant agree, agree to disagree)
- ย Always let your friends know how you feel.
- always let them know they are loved.(give hugs when needed)
- The word NO is notย the end of a friendship.
- FORGIVENESS is not a weakness…
- All Apologies are from the heart and it is not a weakness to do so if you royally screwedย up, is a sign of the strength of your character.
A life with Disabilities.Don’t feel sorry for me.. But you can pray.
When I was 3yrs old I was diagnosed with migraine disease and through the years the headaches have come in many forms,ย from syncope, dizziness, heart palpitations, & the mimic of stroke. a Migraine is a misfire in the brain that sends the wrong signals to the body. Sometimes I wish it was just blinding pain as it often is.
I also have RA in most of my joints and spine, So mobility is an issue. Most of the time I have to be laying down as sitting and standing is difficult for long periods of time. I have 2 adult children who help with my care and a teen who is a challenge. My husband does most of everything I need but when he needs to go out my older children look after me. I can do most things for my self if I don’t have to be up to long.
There are times when I feel like a burden as I feel silly needing a sitter because I never know when the invisible man is going to strike and I have a Headache, Or I fall God forbid I’m alone when this happens Because some of my headaches are deadly.
Don’t Get me wrong I’m not feeling sorry for myself far from it I am very blessed to have such a loving and supportive family I thank God for them every day and I never take them for granted. I also have some of the greatest friends around too as if they have the time they visit and do a lot of fun stuff with me. We watch movies, go out for coffee or frozen yogurt, or maybe just a drive. when I feel up to it.
I thank God every day for my life. I do things that are fulfilling I counsel teens in crisis, and parent of said teens as well. I work with suicide intervention online. And I play games with online friends. Such as FV2, Matches with friends, Candy crush, and many others.
Please don’t Feel sorry for me other than pain; I AM VERY HAPPY and very Blessed!
I like to think I’m a good Friend who listens. I don’t take my friends for granted, they are too precious and the true ones are rare indeed.
So in closing, If I can be a nice person and smile be loving and deal with all the crap I just talked about. There is no reason for any of you to be sourpusses. Get It? Got It? Good!!! ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย 
Trisha's Nook 