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The Peace Of Meditation

๐“ข๐“ธ ๐”€๐“ฎ ๐“ถ๐“ช๐”‚ ๐“ด๐“ท๐“ธ๐”€ ๐“–๐“ธ๐“ญ ๐“ซ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ๐“ฝ๐“ฎ๐“ป
๐“๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ฏ๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“ต ๐“—๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“บ๐“พ๐“ฒ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ ๐“น๐“ธ๐”€๐“ฎ๐“ป,
๐“›๐“ฎ๐“ฝ ๐“พ๐“ผ ๐“ญ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ด๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“น ๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“ผ๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ
๐“ ๐“œ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ฒ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ท ๐“—๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป-
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐“ฝ๐“ธ ๐“พ๐“ท๐“ญ๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ผ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“–๐“ธ๐“ญ’๐“ผ ๐“ฐ๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ท๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ผ
๐“๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ฝ๐“ธ ๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฎ ๐“—๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“ฐ๐“ฒ๐“ฏ๐“ฝ๐“ผ ๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ฌ๐“ฑ ๐“ญ๐“ช๐”‚
๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ผ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ต ๐“ถ๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฝ ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ท ๐“ฝ๐“ธ ๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ ๐“ฑ๐“ฒ๐“ถ
๐“˜๐“ท ๐“ช ๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ฒ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ ๐”€๐“ช๐”‚,
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป ๐“•๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ป ๐“ฝ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐“ต๐“ผ ๐“ฑ๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“ฌ๐“ฑ๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ญ๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“ท
๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ช๐“ฝ ๐“ฒ๐“ฏ ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐”‚ ๐”€๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ต๐“ญ ๐“ด๐“ท๐“ธ๐”€ ๐“—๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต
๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐”‚ ๐“ถ๐“พ๐“ผ๐“ฝ ๐“ผ๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“ด ๐“—๐“ฒ๐“ถ ๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ผ๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฌ๐“ฎ
๐“ฆ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ท ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ถ ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ผ๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต…
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐“ท๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“พ๐“ป๐“ฎ’๐“ผ ๐“ฐ๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ฝ ๐“ฏ๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฌ๐“ฎ๐“ผ
๐“๐“ป๐“ฎ ๐“ฏ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“บ๐“พ๐“ฒ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ผ
๐“›๐“ฒ๐“ด๐“ฎ ๐“ผ๐“ธ๐“ฏ๐“ฝ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ฏ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ต๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ ๐“ผ๐“ท๐“ธ๐”€๐“ฏ๐“ต๐“ช๐“ด๐“ฎ๐“ผ
๐““๐“ป๐“ฒ๐“ฏ๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ ๐“ญ๐“ธ๐”€๐“ท ๐“ธ๐“ท ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต’๐“ผ ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ผ,
๐“ž๐“ป ๐“น๐“ฎ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ผ ๐“ญ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“น๐“น๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ ๐“ผ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ท๐“ญ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ผ๐“ผ๐“ต๐”‚
๐“•๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ถ ๐“ช ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ฏ๐“พ๐“ต๐“ต-๐“ซ๐“ต๐“ธ๐”€๐“ท ๐“ป๐“ธ๐“ผ๐“ฎ,
๐“ข๐“ธ ๐“–๐“ธ๐“ญ ๐“ฌ๐“ธ๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ผ ๐“ฌ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ผ๐“ฎ ๐“ฝ๐“ธ ๐“พ๐“ผ
๐“ฆ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ท ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป ๐“ผ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ต๐“ผ ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ฎ ๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“น๐“ธ๐“ผ๐“ฎ…
๐“ข๐“ธ ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ฝ ๐“พ๐“ผ ๐“น๐“ต๐“ช๐“ท ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ ๐“น๐“ป๐“ช๐”‚๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ฏ๐“พ๐“ต ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ฎ
๐“ฃ๐“ธ ๐“ช๐“ต๐”€๐“ช๐”‚๐“ผ ๐“ช๐“ต๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฎ
๐“ ๐“ฌ๐“ฎ๐“ป๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“น๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ท ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“ฎ๐“ช๐“ฌ๐“ฑ ๐“ญ๐“ช๐”‚
๐“ฃ๐“ธ ๐“ซ๐“ฎ ๐“ผ๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ช๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ฒ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฎ…
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐”€๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ท ๐“ฎ๐“ฟ๐“ฎ๐“ป๐”‚๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ ๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“บ๐“พ๐“ฒ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ
๐“๐“ท๐“ญ ๐”€๐“ฎ’๐“ป๐“ฎ ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“ผ๐“ฝ ๐“ฒ๐“ท ๐“ถ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ฒ๐“ฝ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ท,
๐“ž๐“พ๐“ป ๐“ผ๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ต ๐“ฒ๐“ผ ๐“ฝ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ๐“ท ๐“น๐“ป๐“ฎ๐“น๐“ช๐“ป๐“ฒ๐“ท๐“ฐ
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐“ช ๐“ญ๐“ฎ๐“ฎ๐“น ๐“ญ๐“ฎ๐“ญ๐“ฒ๐“ฌ๐“ช๐“ฝ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ท
๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ช๐“ฝ ๐”€๐“ฒ๐“ต๐“ต ๐“ถ๐“ช๐“ด๐“ฎ ๐“ฒ๐“ฝ ๐”€๐“ฑ๐“ธ๐“ต๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“น๐“ธ๐“ผ๐“ผ๐“ฒ๐“ซ๐“ต๐“ฎ
๐“ฃ๐“ธ ๐“บ๐“พ๐“ฒ๐“ฎ๐“ฝ๐“ต๐”‚ ๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ญ๐“พ๐“ป๐“ฎ
๐“ฃ๐“ฑ๐“ฎ ๐“ฟ๐“ฒ๐“ธ๐“ต๐“ฎ๐“ท๐“ฝ ๐”€๐“ธ๐“ป๐“ต๐“ญ ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ท๐“ญ ๐“พ๐“ผ-
๐“•๐“ธ๐“ป ๐“–๐“ธ๐“ญ ๐”€๐“ฎ ๐“ช๐“ป๐“ฎ ๐“ผ๐“ฎ๐“ฌ๐“พ๐“ป๐“ฎ.

ART & Poetry · Family · Friends · Holidays

A Special Christmas Eve…

ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย ย Before you go to sleep, my friends, and dream of Christmas morn, I wish to tell you of a legend that was to have happened around the shortly after Christ was born.

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The Legend of The Holly

The Legend of

The Holly

 

ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  In haste from Bethlehem,

ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย And heard the tread of soldiers

ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  Coming in pursuit of them.

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There wasn’t any time at all

To find a hiding place,

For Herod’s men approached them

At a swift and steady pace.

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So Marry took her Little One

And with a whispered prayer,

Hid Him beneath a holly bush

With gentle, loving care.

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The wintered holly put forth leaves

To hide the Infant King,

And grew a guard of slender thorns

About Him in a ring.

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King Herod’s soldiers hurried past,

And all were unaware

The Infant whom they sought was safe

Within the holly’s care.

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The Christ Child blessed the holly then

So it would always be

Forever greenโ€” a sign of hope

Andย  Immortality.

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So now, at Christmas, holly plays

A very special part

Because one night it gently held

The Christ Child in its heart.

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ART & Poetry · Family · Friends

Happiness Is a Gift By Alain

Above all, and this seems quite apparent to me, it is impossible to be happy if one does not have the desire to be happy; one must therefore, will one’s happiness, and create it.
What has not been sufficiently stressed is that we have an obligation toward others to be happy. It is often said that only the happy are loved; but it is forgotten that this recompense is just and deserved; for unhappiness, boredom, and despair are in the air we all breath; and so we owe thanks and a laurel wreath to those who dissipate the miasmas and, in a sense, purify life around us with their energetic example.
There is indeed nothing more profound in love than the vow to be happy.
What can be more difficult to overcome than the boredom, sadness, or unhappiness of those we love?
Every man and every woman should keep in mind the fact that happiness -I mean the happiness one conquers for oneself- is the most beautiful and the most generous gift one can give.

ART & Poetry · Friends · School of Hard Knocks

The Essence of a Friend…

We have many, many, many, acquaintancesย in thisย life, But Few real friends.

When you think about it you want to be sad, Don’t this is how its supposedย to be. I was trying to teach my teen daughter it is possible to have more than one best friend. where she argued a blue streak saying it just was not possible. I have learned otherwise there are different kinds ofย friends.

  1. The friendly acquaintance.
  2. ย  ย  ย  ย Your casual friend( you know the one from high school you call every 6 mo to a year just to make sure their breathing, go camping or watch the super bowl with, or Ladies you go shopping twice a year.)
  3. ย  ย  ย  ย  Then there are your close friends,( You know the ones you hang with at the bar or coffee shop. once or twice a week.)
  4. ย  ย  ย  ย Best friend type A:(the one you take to the gym, see every other day but still no call’s after 11pm. and youย share your every day strugglesย to a point)
  5. ย  ย  ย  BEST Friend best of the best.(the ones you call family even though you’re not related. Brothers from differentย mothers and sisters of the same.You shareย everything day or night ups, downs there is never TMI.)

 

For me, I love all unconditionally, and sometimes its hard to distinguish between 1&2.

but it happens and I get hurt. In explaining this to my daughter she started to get it.

Sometimes when I think of the people I consider family, some I have known for years and some only months and some I even never seen or I have butย not in person all I do is talk to them on messenger or skype. but they are goodย people. you know how kids today say I have an app for that? well, I say I have a Friend for that.ย  I have friends that share in most all of my interests and I have friends that share life experiences, so when I need my friends I go to the ones that can help the most first and then the rest. to start a spiral justImage result for sea shells

like the structure of the large shell, I’m in the center and all my Friends and Family are gathered around creating this strong support network.

Are you Getting it yet? its the same for you. there are some simple rules to follow…

  1. Always be Honest (Don’t Lie to your Friends)
  2. learn when to pleadย the fifth, ( to say I have no opinion)
  3. Always Listen, evenย when you think they’re totallyย out of their mind.
  4. ย Never Ever Take Yourย Friends For Granted!!!
  5. always have words of encouragement ready when needed.
  6. Don’t be afraid to tell yourย friends they are Messingย up.
  7. If you can, give yourย friend the tools to get back on track.This is when I teach. If they have needs that need to be met, use your best judgmentย  and refer to rule 11.(as a rule, Iย always buy what they need if it concerns money if I have it. I never give Cash or checks to friends No offense.)
  8. Never leave an argument unsettled( if you cant agree, agree to disagree)
  9. ย Always let your friends know how you feel.
  10. always let them know they are loved.(give hugs when needed)
  11. The word NO is notย the end of a friendship.
  12. FORGIVENESS is not a weakness…
  13. All Apologies are from the heart and it is not a weakness to do so if you royally screwedย up, is a sign of the strength of your character.

Continue reading “The Essence of a Friend…”

ART & Poetry · Friends · GREAT COFFEE & FOOD

๐“’๐“ธ๐“ฏ๐“ฏ๐“ฎ๐“ฎ ๐“ฃ๐“ฒ๐“ถ๐“ฎ…

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ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  ย The wind is cold, the streets are dark and wet.

The masses are huddled in their coats Just trying to keep warm.

Up the walk, they scurry, Catching the scent of the Beans; On the wind.

And Seeing the warm glow of the Coffee shop window.

Oh, how they wish to be there quicker, 1,2,3, more steps with a sigh.

The warmth of the porthole soothes them, as they enter,

Seeing Friendly faces new and old.

One by One as it’s always done they approach the counter to order their brew,

So they can sit in a cozy corner and listen to a poem or two.

And fellowship with friends and maybe make new,

Enjoying Coffee Time Like We All Do…

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~Trisha Morgan~

ART & Poetry

Survivor

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Afraid, alone, ugly, dirty, weak, and Hopeless,

Always looking over my shoulder.

Running always running, Terrified.

Hiding within myself, the ground beneath me always falling away.

Huddled in a corner in the darkness. I’m a Victim.75ee208aa0ac60f17f032ef0e5da8cb0

Then a subtle light Growing ever stronger it’s Unconditionalย  Love,

Selfless caring, Friendship.

Feeling stronger, loved, coming out of my shell,

Finding Hope washing myself clean

With the steadfast warmth of light

And togetherness of others that love

And acceptance of me for me.

No longer running.

Standing tall and teaching from the past.

See Me I am Strong, I am Beautiful,

I AM A SURVIVOR

 

This is dedicated to the friends and family who were there for me in 1984 & 1985.
Love to you All
ART & Poetry · Friends

Friends…

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What Kind Of Friend Are You???

  1. The friend who only calls or comes round when you need something?
  2. The friend who if its not convenient it doesn’t matter to you?
  3. The two faced friend who loves me to my face and trash talks about me behind my back?
  4. The friend who is just a friend for what I can give you (stuff)?
  5. The friend who uses me for your fall guy?
  6. The mean friend who subtly bully’s me?
  7. The friend who takes me for granted?
  8. THE FRIEND WHO IS ALWAYS THERE NO MATTER WHAT?
  9. THE FRIEND WHO LIKES ME FOR ME?
  10. THE FRIEND WHO IS HONEST 99.9% OF THE TIME?
  11. THE FRIEND THAT DISTANCE DOESN’T MATTER YOU’LL CALL,TEXT, OR WRITE OFTEN OR WHEN POSSIBLE?

12. THE FRIEND WHO LOVES ME UNCONDITIONALLY?

I was not yelling. I was separating the good from the bad. Friendship is very important to personal growth and stability, allot of people go through life with out experiencing true friendship. And it’s sad. you don’t need to follow the crowd to have friends. sure its fun to fit in when it good clean fun like fashion, music and common interests. But acting like some one else is not good for you; you need to be you. If you don’t know who you are trying new things is good as long as they are legal and you aren’t going to hurt your self doing them. to be liked you must Like your self.

I know that can be hard some times and some times you need a helping hand to show you how to do this. Self respect and self esteem go hand in hand .

And always remember that what you say and what you do out in the world is how people in the world see you and make their opinions of you.IF YOU DON’T ACT LIKE AN ASS AT HOME, DON’T ACT LIKE ONE IN PUBLIC!

Words can Hit harder than a slap. So think before you speak. you will make more friends that way.

You know I just went over the don”ts. And did not help any one make friends. Well here it is its simple , smile and say hi. Sometimes it just happens you start talking to some one ohย  I don’t know at the Dr.’s office or the park or the food court at the mall and things build from there or its someone from work or school. I used bad grammar on purpose to make a point. sometimes a random act of kindness can be an Icebreaker just don’t be creepy about it. If you are trying to make friends with someone who is standoffish and a little rude find out what interests them it might be something you like to do to or something new you might like.

well, I’m going to close with a poem from a friend.

ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย ย  A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend,

one human soul whom we can trust utterly,

who knows the best and worst of us,

and who loves us in spite of all our faults…

by: CHARLES KINGSLEY

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